Discernment
What questions should you be asking to see if discernment is for you? Take a look at what we suggest you ask when looking into the discernment process:
What is discernment counseling, and how does it differ from traditional couples therapy or individual counseling?
What are the goals and objectives of discernment counseling?
Is discernment counseling suitable for couples who are uncertain about continuing their relationship or are on the brink of separation or divorce?
How long does discernment counseling typically last, and how frequently are sessions scheduled?
What qualifications, experience, and training does the discernment counselor have?
What is the counselor's approach or methodology in guiding couples through the discernment process?
How does the counselor maintain a neutral and unbiased stance throughout the counseling process?
How does discernment counseling address the individual needs and perspectives of both partners in the relationship?
Will the counselor provide any recommendations or advice regarding whether to separate or reconcile, or is the focus solely on exploring options and gaining clarity?
What are the confidentiality and privacy policies of the discernment counseling process?
How much does discernment counseling cost, and what are the payment arrangements?
Are there any limitations or restrictions on who can participate in discernment counseling, such as specific relationship issues or mental health concerns?
What are the potential benefits and risks of discernment counseling?
How can discernment counseling support personal growth and improve communication within the relationship, regardless of the ultimate decision?
Are there any resources or follow-up support available after the discernment counseling process is completed?
These questions should help you gain a better understanding of discernment counseling and whether it aligns with your needs and goals for your relationship. It's essential to have open and honest communication with the counselor to make an informed decision about whether to pursue discernment counseling.